I've filled about twenty pages of a notebook this year with tips and skills I've acquired from my quest to rewire my brain for happiness. It hasn't always worked, but I've definitely been happier than ever before.
The most relevant tip for the Thanksgiving season has to do with
gratitude --- one of the five core skills of a happy camper. To play
along at home, don't just tell the world what you're thankful for once a
year around the family table. Instead, you'll get optimal results by
writing down your gratitude once a week. (More often gives diminishing
returns because you tend to go into robot mode and not really focus on
how good you have it.) You'd be surprised how much you'll realize you
have to be thankful for if you keep this practice up!
A similar technique is to focus on wonder and beauty in your daily life.
I've improved both my sleep and my disposition by remembering five
wonderful events of the day before I fall asleep each night. Then (if I
haven't drifted off yet), I move on to anticipation of five wonderful
things about tomorrow. My favorite part about this practice is that you
know you'll need five fun facts to report that night, so you tend to
spend all day taking in the beauty around you.
Why is this relevant to a homesteading blog? I think simplifying your
brain is even more important than simplifying your life style. Because
if you're focusing on wonder and gratitude day to day, then you won't
need a fancy kitchen or new car to fill the void inside. And that lack
of craving is what drives true voluntary simplicity.