I tried to write a post
containing highlights of 2017...but many events of last winter and
spring are simply too raw for me to even skim past. So, instead, here
are my goals for 2018 --- both simpler and more difficult than they at
first appear.
First and foremost, I
plan to continue bringing my life more into balance. Left to my own
devices, I work until I drop. But my body isn't as young as it used to
be, and both physical and mental resiliency require more work than they
used to take.
The prescription?
Incorporate more fun into my life! I'm carefully backing off on
production goals in most most areas of my life by approximately 10%,
penciling in holidays weeks and months in advance. So far, this method
of making me take time off has actually worked. Next step --- continue
to plan rejuvenating activities to fill in those gaps.
One of the biggest goals
of our move was finding our "tribe" --- likeminded people with whom we
have lots in common. To that end, we're working as quickly as my
introversion allows to meet our neighbors, attend interesting events in
town, and insinuate ourselves into organizations that will help us
build a more resilient community.
As is usual for me,
doing something hard becomes more realistic when I set a quota --- two
socializing events per week. Three months in, I already know more
people in the community than I did after ten years in Virginia without
this goal (although the in-depth relationships will take quite a bit
more time to build).
Happy New Year to you guys, too!
Thanks so much for your blog and for sharing your life's adventures.
Advice from an old guy: Please remember the truth in the old saw that says life is a journey, not a destination. We never actually 'get there.' So enjoy every single day and keep going. Find at least one thing in the day, every day, to just soak in and enjoy.
I have learned this lesson for myself, but I was taught that lesson by my grandfather, who was wounded twice by artillery fire in France during WWI. He came back from that horrible experience and practiced the daily habit of 'stopping to smell the roses once every day' for the rest of his life after that - even though his lungs were permanently damaged which made smelling and breathing difficult some days.
So, look at what you CAN do, and don't focus on what you CAN'T do. Cheers for the new year!
Yep - seems your tribe is a lot more far reaching than you may have realized. Nice comments - great goals for 2018! Thanks for sharing as always!
Happy New Year and thank you both again for the blog! I still remember the holiday break years ago when I discovered your blog and spent 3 days reading every post to catch up to date. That was six years ago. Still a daily reader.
I hope last year isn't too, too raw for you. Sorry to hear that there were such struggles. Glad you have a positive, happy outlook with balance in mind.
Cheers!