Modern marketing has
convinced us that if we just had the right possessions, we would be
happy. The concept has even spawned "retail therapy", the idea
that if you feel down, a good shopping trip will perk you right up.
In stark contrast, science
suggests that buying more things makes us less able to appreciate
life's small pleasures.
I've also noticed that any emotional boost I might receive from a
purchase dulls quickly as I get used to my acquisition and the fun toy
fades into the background. (Often, the purchase glow dies even
faster as I succumb to buyer's remorse.)
But sometimes, you
really can buy happiness. A full year after installing our ultra-efficient,
tiny wood stove, I
still smile every time I glance in her direction. Basking in her
warmth is one of my favorite cold weather activities, and perhaps that
explains the longevity of my pleasure at the purchase. Even
though it seemed like we were buying a hunk of iron, we were really
paying for a lifetime of experiences, and experiences are the one type
of purchase that scientists report stand the test of time.