It took me a couple of
weeks to accept the reality --- that nowhere we could afford in the
Athens, Ohio, area will be as private as our current farm. Currently,
we hear a neighbor driving his tractor through hay fields a couple of
times a month in the summer and can see another neighbor's light in
winter if we stand in a certain part of the yard and turn our heads
just right. Otherwise, when we're home, we're entirely alone...and I
revel in the solitude.
However, the second
Airbnb we stayed at taught me that you don't have to be far from the
road to feel quite private. The house on that property was set back 134
feet from a quite busy road (yes, I did pace the distance). And, thanks
to a grove of bamboo, encircling trees, and a well-placed evergreen on
the inside, the house felt as private as I could have wished.
I'm thinking the trick
with privacy plantings is to include fast-growers, evergreens, and
shrubs of various densities. Actually, it sounds quite a lot like planting
a hedge.
Your current property seems quite remote by most people's standard. Not that many people have to cross a ford to get to their house!
But living close to a city does not mean you can't have privacy. I stayed in a house in Taupo (News Zealand) once that was not more than a couple of minutes from the centre of town. But from that house you could not see the neighbors houses.
Additionally, as I put in the title, privacy is partially in the mind.
Here in the Netherlands realities like population density means that most people live in row houses or apartments. Which means that often your neighbors are literally on the other side of the wall. But with brick or concrete walls and a tradition of not bothering your neighbors, there is no general feeling of lack of privacy. And it has its upsides. My local supermarket is a two-minute walk. And the centre of my city is 15 minutes by bicycle.